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Thirukkural Week 3

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๐‘ป๐’‰๐’†๐’š ๐’‡๐’†๐’‚๐’“๐’†๐’… ๐’๐’ ๐’˜๐’†๐’‚๐’‘๐’๐’โ€ฆ

๐‘ฉ๐’–๐’• ๐’‚ ๐’Ž๐’Š๐’„ ๐’Ž๐’‚๐’…๐’† ๐’•๐’‰๐’†๐’Ž ๐’•๐’“๐’†๐’Ž๐’ƒ๐’๐’†.


It might sound dramatic, but 2,000 years ago, Thiruvalluvar talked about stage fright.


๐“๐ก๐ž ๐Š๐ฎ๐ซ๐š๐ฅ ๐ˆ ๐‡๐จ๐ฅ๐ ๐“๐ก๐ข๐ฌ ๐–๐ž๐ž๐ค - ๐–๐ž๐ž๐ค ๐Ÿ‘


เฎชเฎ•เฏˆเฎฏเฎ•เฎคเฏเฎคเฏเฎšเฏ เฎšเฎพเฎตเฎพเฎฐเฏ เฎŽเฎณเฎฟเฎฏเฎฐเฏ เฎ…เฎฐเฎฟเฎฏเฎฐเฏ

เฎ…เฎตเฏˆเฎฏเฎ•เฎคเฏเฎคเฏ เฎ…เฎžเฏเฎšเฎพ เฎคเฎตเฎฐเฏ.


Many are ready to even die in battle, but few can face an audience without fear.


- Thirukkural 723


And even today, this couldnโ€™t be more true.

Facing danger takes strength. Facing people takes something deeper. If you have ever stood in front of a crowd, you know what I mean.


The moment you face the audience, your heart beats louder than your voice. Your hands shake, your legs feel heavy, and even simple words feel complicated. One glance at the audience, and suddenly your mouth goes dry, and your thoughts run away. You know they are just people, but it feels like every pair of eyes is judging you.


I still remember my first (CC1) speech in Toastmasters 10 years ago. A thousand thoughts rushed in the moment I faced the audience. I wasnโ€™t scared of speakingโ€ฆ I was scared of being judged. And in that moment, I completely understood what Thiruvalluvar meant.


We are now fortunate to have supportive spaces like Toastmasters, where anyone can learn, practise, and grow at their own pace. Stage fright doesnโ€™t disappear overnight. It decreases with practice.


So if the mic still makes your hands shake, remember you are not alone.

You get better every time you speak. Even after all these years, I still feel anxious. But now I know how to work with that fear instead of against it.


So the real battle is on stage, and the best weapon is practice.


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